I’ve said it before…

…I’ll probably say it a thousand times.  The things that come out the best for me in life are the things that I don’t plan.  It doesn’t matter what aspect of life it is…it just always ends up that way.  So, by now you would think that I would fly by the seat of my pants, but I don’t.  I plan away…as always.  Because I like to.  Because it gives me comfort and it makes me feel safe.  And I like that.  Then every day, literally, something happens not according to the plan that makes me smile.  Not always…but almost always. (Ok I have to admit that lately it has been making me cry…)  I completely believe that is why God gave me children.