...I'll probably say it a thousand times. The things that come out the best for me in life are the things that I don't plan. It doesn't matter what aspect of life it is...it just always ends up that way. So, by now you would think that I would fly by the seat of my pants, but I don't. I plan away...as always. Because I like to. Because it gives me comfort and it makes me feel safe. And I like that. Then every day, literally, something happens not according to the plan that makes me smile. Not always...but almost always. (Ok I have to admit that lately it has been making me cry...) I completely believe that is why God gave me children.